Holy Joy

Isaac and I have recently been encouraged and empowered in our parenting by a book we’ve been reading together called Woven, by Meredith Miller. Woven discusses how to nurture lasting resilient faith in our children in ways unique to each family, anchoring them to the unchanging and trustworthy character of God. It focuses on finding the small daily ways that we can learn about and experience God in our lives together. 
One of the characteristics of God that we explored was Joy. ​

Naomi White

Sometimes I forget that following Christ is not supposed to be all sacrifice all the time. Neither is it about making my life more comfortable and pleasant. Rather, the holy presence of God is joyful. 

To quote Woven, “To live with real joy is a holy way to live. Joy is an end in itself, a good in itself, because it is a marker of God’s presence.”


This reminder was so powerful and encouraging. But the next day, as we went about our normal morning routine of scrambling to rush out the door, I remembered Meredith writing about family routines and the struggle to create joy in the day to day. “Sometimes complaining and anxiety are just easier places to wallow when compared to the work of making room for joy. Joy doesn’t just happen; it takes practice. But the practice is worthwhile, as it helps us anchor to our joyful God.”


As I remembered these words I stopped, halfway through brushing my teeth while glaring at Isaac, standing in my way. I saw the routine that we had in the morning was one of hurry and stress and irritation (sorry, Isaac!). But if I could make a space for joy in our morning, a chance to do the day to day differently, with purpose, then the morning could become a chance to grow closer to God together. I finished brushing my teeth, took a deep breath and slowed down. I continued through the morning looking for an opportunity for joy.


The transformation of our day was incredible! We still had to gather our one million bags, we still had to pack lunches and buckle car seats. But for the first time in a while, I noticed how bright the sun was in the morning, how fresh the air was, and how many different birds we could hear. Everett and I paused to listen to them and find where the weirdest bird song was coming from. We got into the car and felt excited for the day. We dropped Everett off at his grandparents and instead of rushing through our good mornings we gave big joyful hugs. As Isaac and I drove away to work we marveled at how warm and full the morning had become. And through it all, I could feel the presence of God.


Not every morning is so spectacular, habits don’t change so quickly. But now, everytime I hear the birds as we walk to our car, I find myself remembering that God is with us today and He’s calling me to Him. And the sun shines a little brighter. In following such a joyful God we are called to celebrate together. Resting in His presence is a joyful thing. And joy fills our hearts till it overflows into the people around us, inviting them to rest in His presence as well. So I invite you to rest in His presence with me today.


Then Nehemiah the governor, Ezra the priest and teacher of the Law, and the Levites who were instructing the people said to them all, “This day is holy to the LORD your God. Do not mourn or weep.” For all the people had been weeping as they listened to the words of the Law. Nehemiah said, “Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is holy to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the LORD is your strength.” Nehemiah 8:9-10


Have a Terrific Tuesday, 
Naomi :-)