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Honoring Those Who Have Passed

5/1/2023

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​I love to read obituaries in our Coeur d’Alene Press! They’re like reading short-story biographies about people you may not even know. You often learn so much about the people, their family connections, their hobbies, and a bit more about their personalities. If you’re fortunate enough to have known those who have passed and have attended their funeral or memorial, you’ll often learn even more about them.
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Emily Rogers
When I was younger, I thought it was morbid for folks to read obituaries. And I could see no reason why anyone would go to a funeral. My rationale was that I’d just as soon remember them when they were still alive. Why did old people do that?
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Well, now that I’m classified as one of the “old people,” I think I understand. We’re at that time of our lives when we think about God’s plan for our eternal life and reflect on what contributions, if any, we’ve left in this path we’ve trod. Have we created any lasting legacies? Did we do some good things for our little piece of the world? Have we lived a life of which our families can be proud?
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Recently, longtime church member Larry Penney passed away. I thought I knew Larry, sometimes directly from interactions with him and sometimes from his wife, Jane. But, in his obituary, I learned much more about him. In addition to his medical career, he loved visiting national parks across the country. I also learned that he was a master gardener for orchards. At his funeral, I heard his sons tell how they would complain when they were young that he’d let people pay him for his services in eggs, bread, and produce, thinking they were ripping-off their dad. It wasn’t until later in life that the sons realized that this was one of Larry’s ways of treating his patients respectfully, knowing they were paying for his medical services with what they were able. It was also his way of living-out his Christian faith.
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I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.  John 13:34-35
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Obituaries and funerals often teach or reaffirm for me what kind of life I should be living so that Christ is seen through my behavior and actions. And, of course, these rites of passage are a way to pay honor to the deceased: yes, they were loved on Earth and made a difference here. Reading about their lives and hearing their stories helps spread an understanding to those of us who may not have even known them that they impacted the world, even if in just a small corner of it.

As a broken, sinful person, I pray that I continue learning lessons from those who have passed into God’s kingdom and that I can leave this world having positively contributed to it.
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Your friend in Christ,
Emily
6 Comments
Connie
5/2/2023 02:28:23 pm

I enjoyed reading your blog. You do such a great job!

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Carolyn Keefer
5/2/2023 06:43:14 pm

I agree with you, Emily! I often feel badly when I read an obituary that I didn't know some of these interesting facts about the person. Yet, I only appreciate them more! Thank you for sharing!

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Cheryl Marcheso
5/3/2023 08:35:15 am

I loved reading Emily’s take on obits. I do find them interesting to see how people have lived their lives.

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Elizabeth McGavin
5/3/2023 12:34:45 pm

Once again Emily, you have written
such an interesting blog! I learned things about Larry Penny that I never knew. And about you! Thank you! for your sharing. We are so lucky to have you.

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Charles Branch
5/4/2023 04:46:53 pm

Dad spoke about Doc MacKinnon (sp.?) of Prentice, Wisconsin, who made a house call after Dad fell out of a tree and landed headfirst at age 12. His dad drove Doc's one horse carriage or sleigh, and after Doc passed on, Doc's son found the spiked receipts with notes of the items received in trade. In the 1940s, the people of Prentice pitched in together and bought Doc his first automobile, the presentation and appreciation receiving coverage in LIFE magazine, as I recall. Grandpa drove that car for Doc when it replaced the horse-drawn transport. Neighbors helping neighbors,,,,

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Emily Rogers
5/8/2023 08:13:30 am

What a wonderful testimony to a life well-lived! Thanks for sharing.

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